Conflicts are inevitable in any relationship, but how we handle them can make all the difference. Here are some steps to help you handle conflicts in relationships, supported by scriptures from the King James Version of the Bible.
1. Speak the truth in love: When conflicts arise, it’s important to speak the truth in love. In Ephesians 4:15, it says, “But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head, even Christ.” Speak the truth with kindness and compassion, and avoid attacking the other person.
2. Listen actively: Listening actively is essential for resolving conflicts. In James 1:19, it says, “Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath.” Listen carefully to the other person’s perspective, and seek to understand their point of view.
3. Forgive one another: Forgiveness is crucial for resolving conflicts. In Colossians 3:13, it says, “Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye.” Forgive the other person, just as Christ forgave you.
4. Seek reconciliation: Seeking reconciliation is important for restoring relationships. In Matthew 5:23-24, it says, “Therefore if thou bring thy gift to the altar, and there rememberest that thy brother hath ought against thee; Leave there thy gift before the altar, and go thy way; first be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift.” Seek to reconcile with the other person, and work towards restoring the relationship.